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Relationships

Build Better Relationships

Communication, trust, boundaries and the work of staying close.

  • Communication
  • Trust
  • Boundaries
  • Emotional Connection
  • Conflict
  • Long-Term Relationships

Getting into a relationship and staying happy in one require different skills. The first rewards openness and curiosity. The second rewards repair — the ability to disagree without damage, to say a difficult thing kindly, and to keep noticing someone you have already stopped being nervous around.

These guides cover the ordinary mechanics of that: how to communicate when you are upset, how to set a boundary without it becoming an ultimatum, what a healthy relationship actually looks like day to day, and how to keep your own life intact inside a partnership.

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Relationships

10 Signs of a Healthy Relationship

Healthy relationships are less dramatic than films suggest. The real indicators are ordinary, undramatic and easy to overlook — here is what to actually look for.

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